I have spent the last 24 hours reading and listening to the news and forums from all sides of the world and viewpoints, seeking what I would address next in my endeavor to stop the fear mongering that is so rampant. But world events in the last 2 months let alone the last 24 hours, have made it next to impossible to select just one. So what I will do is start with the basic question and work to addressing at least in the most simplistic of ways the current events.
All of us are born on this earth as pure clean slates, with nothing needed other than to be fed, held and well have our diapers changed….in the beginning we are very simple. We don’t look at the world around us with hate or fear…we may get startled at loud noises but that is a normal instinct every being is born with. But hate and fear are taught, learned. We are a product of both nature, what we are born with naturally and nurture, what the environment around us puts in us.
We are still very innocent and open in the early years, while being formed into the adults we will become. I am reminded of this as I go out on my daily walks in my neighborhood. About 400 feet from my home is a fence and behind it are squeals and giggles and games going on, it always makes me smile and laugh. I remember those carefree times of childhood playing the games of imagination that as adults we abandon. Then about another 800 feet another fence behind it the same laughter and games from a different group of children….the same innocence the same imaginations leading the play. I should add behind the first fence is a Mosques daycare, behind the second a Baptist daycare. Religion doesn’t make a difference to the play or joy…it’s just children loving and living a childs life. Nature still really rules humans at this age though nurture is creeping in.
It really isn’t for many until the teen years that we start realizing or understanding what we are being told by our elders, be it parents, teachers or clergymen. Until then we only aped what they said or did without fully appreciating what was meant in what we were seeing or being told. A six year old who says for example “I hate war” but cannot give you reasons why is simply repeating what they heard adults say. But a teenager might just be able to give you an intelligent answer for their feelings, albeit it could be one they learned again from a grown-up.
For many of us we don’t really look at what we think or feel until we enter college or start our first “adult job” in our early 20’s. When we are our on our own and able to experience the world on our own terms. But in many societies even then you are still at home and under the eye of the elders, but your mind is not.
This is when many start listening to news more, or friends more and taking to heart those opinions, without question. If you live in a society that says one group of people are bad and evil and thats is all you have ever been told and you have never experienced anything but, that will be your belief. If you live in a society that says it is okay to treat a certain group in that society a certain way, you will always think it is acceptable. If you live in a society that when a person tries to speak up about wrongs that need to be corrected and you see them imprisoned or executed, you may feel you have no way to have a voice. Many times it is much easier to just go along with what everyone else does even if inside you feel it is wrong and not the way it should be, because it is safe. It is normal and by nature a very human thing to do. Self-preservation is normal all living beings do it….it takes great strength and will do go against this basic instinct. To say things against your parents, family, friends, clergy and yes in some cases government takes great bravery, but many times it is because inside it is the right thing for all humans to do.
Today I woke from my sleep, like many of you. I had to use the restroom, like many of you. I was hungry and thirsty, like many of you. Those basic things are innate in all of us. I was able to wake in my own bed, safe in my home, I know how blessed I am. I was able to have running water, I know how blessed I am. I had food to eat, clean water to drink, I know how blessed I am. I know for many this is not the case. And that difference alone can create turmoil, hatred and fear. I wholly understand that and do my small part to change that when I can and ask of those I know to do the same.
The things I can do is fight when I see someone, or a news agency give a blanket and incorrect statement regarding a specific group of people anywhere in the world, just to cause hate and fear. The facts I know about all my fellow humans across this world is not one of them fit in a cookie cutter mold of their skin, religion, sex, education,where they were born, they are each unique in their thoughts, ideas, beliefs and actions. They are a product of both nurture and nature, of their whole life and experiences.
But I also know to look at a human and hate them at sight for what color they are is wrong. To hate them because of the clothing they wear is wrong. To hate them for their religion is wrong. To assume you know their heart is wrong. To assume you know their mind is wrong. We are all born a perfect clean slate, you never know if that person before you is that one person whose slate is still perfect and clean, how terrible to imagine hating or fearing that one person.